Have you ever wondered if you believe a lie? There are lots of things we simply do not know for certain. Can we trust what the majority says is right and true? I lived as a victim of a lie for many years. I became so convinced the lie was true that it became a subconscious fact. The lie I believed was that I thought it was wrong to be happy. I thought being happy meant I was doing something bad. As with all lies, this belief was incredibly harmful to me psychologically, emotionally and spiritually. Thankfully others helped me to see the lie for what it was, a lie, and once it was revealed to be a lie it held no more power over me.
I am convinced that the majority of people in this time period have been deceived by a lie. Not the same lie I was deceived by, but a different lie. I know that it is easy to fall for a lie, especially when you are told the lie from someone you trust or admire. This particular lie, that has duped the masses has been widely accepted as truth. It is promoted and backed by huge organizations. Millions of dollars are spent on promoting this lie. They say it will bring you happiness, pleasure, fun, fulfillment, love, but it won't. In will do just the opposite. It will bring you things like shame, sadness, depression, sickness, anger, loneliness, and fear.
So what is it? I've already given you some clues. If you can figure out what this lie is without me telling you, it will be easier for you to admit that it's a lie. It will be easier for you to realize this thing you thought you were doing right and that you thought was helping your relationships, and could help you find true love, peace, happiness, fulfillment, was actually causing you psychological, emotional, spiritual and even physical pain. If you can see the damage the lie is doing to you, if you can admit it to yourself, you can become free of it. Not on your own, though. It will be almost 100% guaranteed that you will be unable to become free from this lie by your own power. Do not despair, because there is also a 100% sure fire way to become free from this lie, but it's hard. You're probably thinking, "She's trying to sell me something..." Yes and no. I'm trying sell you an idea. It's free of cost if you only think of the cost in terms of money. It's not free if you think of cost as something else, in this case giving up something highly enjoyable, yet at the same time highly dangerous.
Perhaps you've guessed what I'm talking about by now. If you have feel free to skip ahead to the next paragraph. If you haven't let's do this exercise. Think back on the last movie you watched. I don't know what your movie is, but if it's anything like the last movie I watched you're likely going to see the lie being promoted as something that is wonderful. It's touted as something that will bring you much pleasure and happiness. It is also shown as normal, so it may not stand out to you, you need to think, what is shown as right, and normal, but is actually wrong, and harmful? The last movie I saw was Passengers. The lie was quite prevalent, but at the same time could easily be overlooked. Ok maybe you don't watch movies, think back to the last few tv shows you watched. Maybe you're anti-technology, fine think about the posters and banners you saw in the department store you last visited or the magazine covers you saw while standing in line at the grocery store. The lie is beaten into us like a never ending drum beat. It's there in your subconscious whether you like it or not. Unless your blind, and deaf, you've encountered this lie many times already today.
Ok if you have or have not guessed what I'm talking about read on. I'm going to speak plainly now. I am telling you this because if you can accept that the following is a lie then you change. If you can change you will find yourself happier and more fulfilled and overall you will have a better life. This is a lie: Go ahead and be free, be free and have sex with whoever you want whenever you want. If you do this you will have more friends, you will be happy, you will feel good about yourself. You don't need some contract or piece of paper tying you down to one person. This is the lie promoted in nearly every movie, tv show, advertisement, internet site, magazine, etc. Why? Because if you believe this lie if you listen and obey this lie you will be enslaved. You will be enslaved to your own self. You will not be happy, you will do so much harm to yourself you will need lots of medications for your depression, anxiety, and fear. You'll need diet pills, clothing, and products to make yourself "more appealing" and to boost your self-esteem, and all of these things cost lots and lots of money. And who profits? The businesses that make the medications, the clothing, the makeup, the shoes, all benefit from your own enslavement and self-destruction. But shhhh now. To say sex is wrong is to hinder my freedom! It's is to go against what is natural, it's to restrict my rights as a human being. That's the thing. You are free. You're free to enslave yourself. You're free to harm yourself. In fact, some are even fighting now to make you free to kill yourself. After all, we all know funerals are expensive and there is a profit to be earned there too!
I hope you can admit that you or someone you know has been harmed by sex. If you can admit that, you can start the process to fix it. Am I saying sex is evil and harmful and we should stop having sex? NO that's crazy if we did that we would not last long before we would be on the endangered species list. What I'm saying is you've been lied to about what sex is. You've been told it is for you to have a good time, and to enjoy yourself fully as a human being without consequences. I'm going to tell you a secret now. I'm guessing it's a secret since not many people seem to know about it. Sex is not bad! Sex is not dirty or naughty or dangerous! When and only when done correctly! The correct way to have sex is to choose one person out of all the people on the entire earth. Someone you really love, someone you love to spend time with, and someone of the opposite gender than your own because this person fulfills what is lacking in you, physically, mentally, spiritually. Commit your life to this person through marriage, where you will promise to be with this person no matter what! No matter if they drive you crazy in the future or if they decide to grow a mullet, you will love them no matter what because that's what love is. It is putting the needs and wants of the other first. You will sacrifice everything for this person up to and including your life in need be. Then and only then after you have made this commitment to each other you will give yourself to the other person it's what's called the marital embrace, aka sex when done right, as a wedding gift to the other person, not for your own pleasure but for theirs, and this is the correct way to use the gift of sex. It is something holy, powerful, beautiful, awe inspiring. It binds two people together for life and sometimes it allows them to participate with God in the creation of a brand new life. This is the only way to use the gift of our sexuality in a way that will not damage us because we are royal beings with great honor. We have the honor of being made in the image and likeness of God. Which means we are the only physical beings made that can reason and come to know our creator God. Because of this, our bodies have great dignity. When we use them incorrectly, as mere playthings for our own pleasure, we hurt ourselves and others because we instinctively know we are demeaning our own self-worth. Our souls cry out in torment when we degrade our bodies. So arise all you people enslaved by premarital sex, adultery, fornication, pornography, shake off your heavy chains and arise to the glory you were made for.
I said before it will be almost 100% guaranteed that you will be unable to become free from this lie by your own power. If you are a slave to any kind of sexual addiction you can be free if you admit that what you're doing is wrong. Then desire to be free and to change. Then I want you to admit that you do not have the ability to be free of these chains on your own and ask God Almighty, the Creator of the Heavens and the Earth, to help you. You really have to mean it and you have to surrender yourself to God's mercy. God is not mad at you. He is not disgusted by what he has witnessed you do to yourself and others, he is sad that you, one of his own created works of art has spoiled yourself. He desires greatly to help you, to love you and to forgive you. He wants you to rise up and become the masterpiece he created you to be. The noble, brilliant person, unique in all the world. He will help you. If you do not believe in God, then start believing right now! It's ok I won't tell anybody!
Now go, surrender to God, allow him to fix you then sin no more and be magnificent!
Want more help? This site has a ton of recourses to hep you get started: http://chastityproject.com/
PS. If you are worried that you will never find the right person to love for all your life and marry and that sounds like and impossible task, read this book: http://chastityproject.com/products/how-to-find-your-soulmate-without-losing-your-soul/ Peace be with you brothers and sisters.
I am convinced that the majority of people in this time period have been deceived by a lie. Not the same lie I was deceived by, but a different lie. I know that it is easy to fall for a lie, especially when you are told the lie from someone you trust or admire. This particular lie, that has duped the masses has been widely accepted as truth. It is promoted and backed by huge organizations. Millions of dollars are spent on promoting this lie. They say it will bring you happiness, pleasure, fun, fulfillment, love, but it won't. In will do just the opposite. It will bring you things like shame, sadness, depression, sickness, anger, loneliness, and fear.
So what is it? I've already given you some clues. If you can figure out what this lie is without me telling you, it will be easier for you to admit that it's a lie. It will be easier for you to realize this thing you thought you were doing right and that you thought was helping your relationships, and could help you find true love, peace, happiness, fulfillment, was actually causing you psychological, emotional, spiritual and even physical pain. If you can see the damage the lie is doing to you, if you can admit it to yourself, you can become free of it. Not on your own, though. It will be almost 100% guaranteed that you will be unable to become free from this lie by your own power. Do not despair, because there is also a 100% sure fire way to become free from this lie, but it's hard. You're probably thinking, "She's trying to sell me something..." Yes and no. I'm trying sell you an idea. It's free of cost if you only think of the cost in terms of money. It's not free if you think of cost as something else, in this case giving up something highly enjoyable, yet at the same time highly dangerous.
Perhaps you've guessed what I'm talking about by now. If you have feel free to skip ahead to the next paragraph. If you haven't let's do this exercise. Think back on the last movie you watched. I don't know what your movie is, but if it's anything like the last movie I watched you're likely going to see the lie being promoted as something that is wonderful. It's touted as something that will bring you much pleasure and happiness. It is also shown as normal, so it may not stand out to you, you need to think, what is shown as right, and normal, but is actually wrong, and harmful? The last movie I saw was Passengers. The lie was quite prevalent, but at the same time could easily be overlooked. Ok maybe you don't watch movies, think back to the last few tv shows you watched. Maybe you're anti-technology, fine think about the posters and banners you saw in the department store you last visited or the magazine covers you saw while standing in line at the grocery store. The lie is beaten into us like a never ending drum beat. It's there in your subconscious whether you like it or not. Unless your blind, and deaf, you've encountered this lie many times already today.
Ok if you have or have not guessed what I'm talking about read on. I'm going to speak plainly now. I am telling you this because if you can accept that the following is a lie then you change. If you can change you will find yourself happier and more fulfilled and overall you will have a better life. This is a lie: Go ahead and be free, be free and have sex with whoever you want whenever you want. If you do this you will have more friends, you will be happy, you will feel good about yourself. You don't need some contract or piece of paper tying you down to one person. This is the lie promoted in nearly every movie, tv show, advertisement, internet site, magazine, etc. Why? Because if you believe this lie if you listen and obey this lie you will be enslaved. You will be enslaved to your own self. You will not be happy, you will do so much harm to yourself you will need lots of medications for your depression, anxiety, and fear. You'll need diet pills, clothing, and products to make yourself "more appealing" and to boost your self-esteem, and all of these things cost lots and lots of money. And who profits? The businesses that make the medications, the clothing, the makeup, the shoes, all benefit from your own enslavement and self-destruction. But shhhh now. To say sex is wrong is to hinder my freedom! It's is to go against what is natural, it's to restrict my rights as a human being. That's the thing. You are free. You're free to enslave yourself. You're free to harm yourself. In fact, some are even fighting now to make you free to kill yourself. After all, we all know funerals are expensive and there is a profit to be earned there too!
I hope you can admit that you or someone you know has been harmed by sex. If you can admit that, you can start the process to fix it. Am I saying sex is evil and harmful and we should stop having sex? NO that's crazy if we did that we would not last long before we would be on the endangered species list. What I'm saying is you've been lied to about what sex is. You've been told it is for you to have a good time, and to enjoy yourself fully as a human being without consequences. I'm going to tell you a secret now. I'm guessing it's a secret since not many people seem to know about it. Sex is not bad! Sex is not dirty or naughty or dangerous! When and only when done correctly! The correct way to have sex is to choose one person out of all the people on the entire earth. Someone you really love, someone you love to spend time with, and someone of the opposite gender than your own because this person fulfills what is lacking in you, physically, mentally, spiritually. Commit your life to this person through marriage, where you will promise to be with this person no matter what! No matter if they drive you crazy in the future or if they decide to grow a mullet, you will love them no matter what because that's what love is. It is putting the needs and wants of the other first. You will sacrifice everything for this person up to and including your life in need be. Then and only then after you have made this commitment to each other you will give yourself to the other person it's what's called the marital embrace, aka sex when done right, as a wedding gift to the other person, not for your own pleasure but for theirs, and this is the correct way to use the gift of sex. It is something holy, powerful, beautiful, awe inspiring. It binds two people together for life and sometimes it allows them to participate with God in the creation of a brand new life. This is the only way to use the gift of our sexuality in a way that will not damage us because we are royal beings with great honor. We have the honor of being made in the image and likeness of God. Which means we are the only physical beings made that can reason and come to know our creator God. Because of this, our bodies have great dignity. When we use them incorrectly, as mere playthings for our own pleasure, we hurt ourselves and others because we instinctively know we are demeaning our own self-worth. Our souls cry out in torment when we degrade our bodies. So arise all you people enslaved by premarital sex, adultery, fornication, pornography, shake off your heavy chains and arise to the glory you were made for.
I said before it will be almost 100% guaranteed that you will be unable to become free from this lie by your own power. If you are a slave to any kind of sexual addiction you can be free if you admit that what you're doing is wrong. Then desire to be free and to change. Then I want you to admit that you do not have the ability to be free of these chains on your own and ask God Almighty, the Creator of the Heavens and the Earth, to help you. You really have to mean it and you have to surrender yourself to God's mercy. God is not mad at you. He is not disgusted by what he has witnessed you do to yourself and others, he is sad that you, one of his own created works of art has spoiled yourself. He desires greatly to help you, to love you and to forgive you. He wants you to rise up and become the masterpiece he created you to be. The noble, brilliant person, unique in all the world. He will help you. If you do not believe in God, then start believing right now! It's ok I won't tell anybody!
Now go, surrender to God, allow him to fix you then sin no more and be magnificent!
Want more help? This site has a ton of recourses to hep you get started: http://chastityproject.com/
PS. If you are worried that you will never find the right person to love for all your life and marry and that sounds like and impossible task, read this book: http://chastityproject.com/products/how-to-find-your-soulmate-without-losing-your-soul/ Peace be with you brothers and sisters.
